I’m not sure whether this is really a secret or not, it certainly seems to be for some because they’ve never heard of it or, at the very least, never try it out for themselves.
Don’t be so serious about it! I mean, sex is pleasure, it is fun, it isn’t about conquests or getting as much as you can with as many as possible, it should be stress-free and, above all, enjoyable for both.
If you go out looking, you’re not likely to find what you’re looking for. Eventually you’re going to take whatever is there, perhaps later in the night or last thing in the morning before your chosen stalking ground closes. If you go out for fun, for pleasure, chances are you’re going to find and couple up with someone who has the same aim in mind. And then it isn’t just about getting clothes off and doing the dirty as quickly as possible, it is about being together – yes, even for a One Night Stand – and enjoying.
I think a lot more people would be less sexually frustrated, less dissatisfied if they took their time and went out with a completely different attitude. After all, who wants to spend the whole night looking and measuring up and then just have a quick bonk with no real pleasure? I certainly don’t!
Love & Kisses, Viki.